Personal Information
- I am: Man
- Seeking a: Pre-Op TG,TS,TV,CD MTF
- Age: 57
- Country: United States
- State: Minnesota
- City: Grand Rapids
- Zipcode: 55744
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Zodiac:
Taurus
Interest In:
- Seeking: Committed Relationship
- Height: 6ft 2in, (188cm)
- Ethnicity: Caucasian
- Marital Status: Married
- Body Type: Athletic
- Sexual Orientation: No Answer
- Eye Color: Blue
- Hair Color: Gray
- My Best Features: Eyes
- Religion: Other
- Smoker: No
- Drink: No
- Have Children: Yes, they live at home
- Want (more) Children: No, happy with what I have
- Education: Some College
- Occupation: Self Employed / Entrepreneur
- My Current Employment Status: Work At Home
- Annual Income: Rather Not Say
- I Live: With Kids(s)
- Willing To Relocate: No
- My Political Views: I Don't Like Politics
- Looking For: Someone to love.
- An Ideal First Date Would Be: Something simple like sitting on a hill and looking out over a lake while talking and hopefully reaching a point where we can both be comfortable just laying our heads in each others laps while we loo
- About Me: Ok, I will likely regret this but my heart still believes there really is someone for me. After five years of my wife and I being in a relationship with a trans girl. She decided due to family commitments to end it. Of course we were devastated we had planed for this person to join our family and be with us for the rest of our life. Being either a hopeless romantic or a glutton for punishment, I decided to open my heart again and for 6 months thought I had finally found my soulmate, until it turned out she had been advertising herself in groups like this almost our entire relationship, not sure if she ever really loved me or if she was just hoping to get money. So here I am again,lonely. In case you missed the first part, Yes I am MARRIED, and have been for almost 30 years. We've been through every kind of hell a relationship can go through. Sickness, death infidelity,relocation, I've held my first born in my arms and watched him almost die twice. family, in-laws, failed businesses, explosions, car crashes, alien abductions, Jehovah Witnesses, time traveling Amway salesmen...uh what was I saying? I love my wife with all my heart and will never leave her. We are a couple who has been fortunate enough to find that special woman of our dreams who wants to be with us and become a part of our family and she will in just a short time. We are are both so thankful to have our wonderful angel in our life. Still I am bi as well, and my wife wants me to be happy, in fact this search was her idea. I need someone to love who is born male and plans to keep their penis. No I am not discriminating against anyone, I am simply stating the kind of person I am attracted to. And no if they decide later that they want full SRS, I'm not going to kick them out in fact if love truly develops between us they can transition all the way or transition back into a man if they prefer and I will still love them the same. I consider FTM to be male and MTF to be female and all the wonderful variations according to what someone chooses to identify as, and I do my best to keep up with and respect all gender terms. No I don't just want someone just for their dick... yes I do want their dick to be a part of our relationship and plan to enjoy it just as I want them to enjoy mine. Now that that is hopefully settled I am looking for someone who's trans to love and cherish and bring joy to me and my family,what I desire more than anything else is a life partner who is our best friend that we can enjoy spending time with someone to share our life with, someone to play with our kids with, someone we can live with, sleep with, eat with, go shopping with, or just lie down with on the grass and stare up at the stars. I am not overly concerned with beauty after all I'm no matinee idol, I fall in love more with a person's character and personality more than their looks although I must admit I am most attracted to the femboy type This is real hard to state a preference because most will just accuse me of treating someone as a fetish. I do not want a hookup or a FWBs I want a real relationship with real communication I want to talk to you and get to know you and see if we are truly compatible, and I want it to take time, not just a few days or even weeks but at least months, possibly years. If love truly grows between us, and I mean love the kind where you can't wait to talk with each other everyday, where every note in every song and even just the mundane images and sounds you experience, only reinforce how much we want to be in each other's arms and get lost in each other's eyes. Then I will want you to move in with us and join our family. YOU WOULD NOT BE EXPECTED TO BE INTIMATE WITH MY WIFE OR HER WIFE UNLESS THE THREE OF YOU GOT ALONG AND WANTED TO. So you would be intimate with just me most likely. Now for the double whammy we have kids two boys one is autistic and the other is aspergers, so you would have to love kids even our kids. lol also we would prefer if you do not smoke.(We do not condemn smoking, it's just our boy is asthmatic.) You will NOT be a sex toy! You will NOT be a slave! You will NOT be a pet,You will NOT be a maid! You will be my lover! you will be my wife! You will be my Treasure! You will be my life! I do not like green eggs and scam, I do not like them ... sorry. I just want someone to wake up with every day and share all the joys and challenges that life offers, someone we can walk in the park with and split a Popsicle or sit at home on a cold night and drink hot chocolate, someone to make love to in the evening and help us get the boys off to school in the morning. We realize that it's a tall order but we believe you're out there somewhere. We do not seek to buy your affection, in fact if love truly unfolds between us, the best that we could promise you would be to quote Neal Diamond "Forever In Blue Jeans" What we can promise is that with us on this adventure called life fraught with pleasure and pain, triumph and defeat, we will move heaven and earth to see to it that any tears you cry , will be of joy and not sorrow. So that's it, corny but sincere. To all you wonderful trans people, I love you all! I mean it, beyond attraction, I admire your amazing courage to be who you truly feel you are in spite of a hostile world telling you what to be. So it's hard for me to reject any of you, if we talk and there is no chemistry, as much as it hurts I will tell you. I've been at this game long enough to know when there is chemistry and when there isn't, I've talked to scammers and fakes and flakes and every flavor in between and I've got pretty good at knowing when I'm just being taken. If you're going to ask me "When can I move in?" before we've even had a real conversation, I can tell you for sure that we are not right for each other. Like I said I do have a type that I'm attracted to that type is not just physical but also attitude I'm big on a positive attitude, there is enough depression in this world, granted I do understand medical conditions. If you truly get the film "Joe vs the Volcano" or you're familiar with the writings of "Neville Goddard", then we are probably made for each other. To you my potential princess, I love everyone and try to get along with everyone, I hate no one and do my best to show all people respect, if we connect and start talking and there is true chemistry I will do everything in my power to win your heart, earn your trust and bring you to me somehow, to give you the kind of life you truly deserve. I won't promises you that I will "Rock your world" or be the best lover you've ever had but I will promise to love you more than anyone ever has and to help you to always feel safe and loved. I know in this ever changing world nothing is permanent but I will do my best to always bring you hope and joy, I may not be the first man you remember but I plan to be the last man you forget. So to sum up which I don't do very well. We're a couple, soon to be triad I am looking for someone who's trans to join us and and our two special needs boys. non or only occasional smokers please as our oldest is asthmatic. Copies of this program can be obtained by writing Gazorniplats Inc. Grand Rapids MN 55744.
- My Interests: Martial arts, I\'m a 3rd generation Bruce Lee student. Beyond that I have too many interest to list but will be happy to share with anyone I talk with, most of my time is spent just being a dad fixing the kid\'s games and toys. lol
